08-19-2012, 02:41 PM
Bases solely on what you posted, he's immature, selfish, careless and, has low self worth with a high libido, or he uses sex to make himself feel worthy.
He needs some counseling and, needs to grow up (assuming his risky behavior doesn't kill him). I applaud you for getting out of that situation and, not being on the receiving end of whatever he might bring home.
As for how to avoid that in the future, the best way I know, and what I do is to make friends and don't even bring sexuality into the picture until you are friends with a guy. Yes you end up with more straight male friends than the average gay man that way, but you also meet gays that are not out there just looking for sex and, you open the eyes of some of the straight friends that we aren't freaks and, enjoy the same things any man enjoys with the exception of what gender turns us on.
He needs some counseling and, needs to grow up (assuming his risky behavior doesn't kill him). I applaud you for getting out of that situation and, not being on the receiving end of whatever he might bring home.
As for how to avoid that in the future, the best way I know, and what I do is to make friends and don't even bring sexuality into the picture until you are friends with a guy. Yes you end up with more straight male friends than the average gay man that way, but you also meet gays that are not out there just looking for sex and, you open the eyes of some of the straight friends that we aren't freaks and, enjoy the same things any man enjoys with the exception of what gender turns us on.
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