I don't know what to do and i really need your advice.

[fenris]

The idea of never having a real relationship is scary. Thats what im afraid of. And about my hair problem. im not saying no one can love me but i dont think its makin it any easier.

Why you should not find the man in your life ? I have found one.... and you will find one too.. if the time is right. Don´t rush to find one .... every time has their good and bad sides ... with or without a partner... enjoy the time without partner... you are free, you can do what you want ..you can learn about yourself ... and when the time is right and you find your partner enjoy this time, too.

And hairy or not ... is a second thing.... if you love someone or someone loves you it is not important if you or he is more or less hairy. You can talk about it.... if someone think you or he looks out better shaved or not... you can talk about. As I met my man he was shaved (beard) and I like beards...so it was not a problem for him to have a beard. Or - another example - I don´t like perfume... he like it ... so we talked about ... and if he is here he don´t use it....
For him it is important that I cook if he is here.... so .. no problem....

In a relationship you have to talk about many things ... and if you grow older you have to talk about much more things... thats normal