Leave someone who is untidy?

[East]

I remember sitting there sick to my stomach alot when I was a kid when my parents had to look through their mess to find something...like the keys...and I would think so myself...why dont' these jackasses put them in the same place everyday so they wouldn't' go through this bizarre meltdown every time they wanted to leave the house....

...and I spent alot of time on my way to sleep trying to calculate the amount of time they wasted each day looking for stuff amidst their clutter and how much of their short life they were wasting...I decided it was 8 full motnhs...24/7...can you imagine at the end of your life having to look back and realize you spend 8 months in a deliberate state of insanity (the definition being doing the same thing over and over expecting different results)...

So...I don't need sanitary cleanliness but if it is a mess..and even worse if they can't find their keys:eek:...total dealbreaker for me.