Being the one he cheated on him with

[dfiant]

Anyhow, any advice/thoughts would be appreciated. If you would, please refrain from laying any blame on me. I already accepted the fact that my overtrusting nature was ultimately the cause of this. I just want some advice on the matter.

I don't see how anyone can blame you. I just hope that you have the shits with the right person. When we meet new people we don't know the truth from a lie until we get to know this person. In the beginning you fell in lust with a whole bunch of lies that you were being told, no one can blame you for that happening.

You have got to know the guy and discovered the truth and in my honest opnion you have done the right thing by cutting off contact with him...just walk away and keep walking.

Make sure you don't have the shits with yourself, you have done nothing wrong...have the shits with him, he lied to you, lead you on and made you feel and believe something that wasn't true.