Need advice about coming out

[outthecloset]

Thank you both for your advice. I know the right thing to do is just get it over with but it's easier said then done. You both made valid points. I also think by moving out of town will buy me time. Being away I can secretly live a gay life. Eventually that will spoil i am sure. It's a lot to digest, but something has to be done. Of course I think about it all the time and wondering when will I get the courage to do so. But lately the thought has been growing and seeming more believable. I have a 1st cousin that recently came out, and his parents accept him greatly, my parents heard about it and just kind of shrubbed their shoulders. I am not close to this cousin but I wonder if I can reach out to him for advice without letting the truth get out. Do you think I can trust this person? Is there a guy/gay code out there for this? haha