09-12-2012, 11:19 AM
Hello,
I would say that maybe coming out to your parents may change their views.. I know it changed my grandmothers view when i come out to her at 17. Another factor in life with relationships is a lot of guys want to be able to call you their boyfriend at all times for equality rights rather than pull the sheet down and refer to you as friend. This is how one of my relationships died.. What i would do in your situation is see it like this:
Life is a journey and this will be my decider
Come out to parents then im left with two options
Option A: If they go mad and donjt want to know i know this job is going to be right and move with the flow of it
Option B: They accept it i know i got my security here still and then can decide on a basis of 50/50 whether to move or not..
With regards to relationships dont fret about them because ill be completely honest with you
After 6 1/2 years with my ex whos now sadly left me... Im dead happy to be bloody single....
Big hugz
Aunty Zeon xx
I would say that maybe coming out to your parents may change their views.. I know it changed my grandmothers view when i come out to her at 17. Another factor in life with relationships is a lot of guys want to be able to call you their boyfriend at all times for equality rights rather than pull the sheet down and refer to you as friend. This is how one of my relationships died.. What i would do in your situation is see it like this:
Life is a journey and this will be my decider
Come out to parents then im left with two options
Option A: If they go mad and donjt want to know i know this job is going to be right and move with the flow of it
Option B: They accept it i know i got my security here still and then can decide on a basis of 50/50 whether to move or not..
With regards to relationships dont fret about them because ill be completely honest with you
After 6 1/2 years with my ex whos now sadly left me... Im dead happy to be bloody single....
Big hugz
Aunty Zeon xx