09-11-2012, 02:49 PM
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gay men are dwn on others still in the closet. A couple of angles:
-a relationship is about sharing your life. Cant share anything if you dont have a common life to share. You cant take him home, you cant walk into a restaurant and risk being seen. You cant hold hands in public or plant a big gay kiss on hm at HomeDepot.
-If your in the closet in many aspects your unsure about your self too. There is an emotional risk for him that one day you will just say no. A good possibly if your not out your homophobic, at least internally.
Think of how he feels if your head turns for a pretty lady. bi for you could mean a lot of things but if he is gay its an un know feeling for him and competition along the thinking "Love the one your with" but can you, he dosnt know.
Is your bi false and just a bridge. That happens too
12years is not a big difference and could be your first big gay love. You can learn a LOT and drag him to where he has never been. You can still talk about the same things. I really think is is a big benefit for both boys even if your together for a few months. I hope you can enjoy him for your whole life?
gay men date like the straights. take it easy and enjoy each other, you have only been together for a few weeks? Test; would you let him kiss you in public in view of a pretty lady your age?
gay men are dwn on others still in the closet. A couple of angles:
-a relationship is about sharing your life. Cant share anything if you dont have a common life to share. You cant take him home, you cant walk into a restaurant and risk being seen. You cant hold hands in public or plant a big gay kiss on hm at HomeDepot.
-If your in the closet in many aspects your unsure about your self too. There is an emotional risk for him that one day you will just say no. A good possibly if your not out your homophobic, at least internally.
Think of how he feels if your head turns for a pretty lady. bi for you could mean a lot of things but if he is gay its an un know feeling for him and competition along the thinking "Love the one your with" but can you, he dosnt know.
Is your bi false and just a bridge. That happens too
12years is not a big difference and could be your first big gay love. You can learn a LOT and drag him to where he has never been. You can still talk about the same things. I really think is is a big benefit for both boys even if your together for a few months. I hope you can enjoy him for your whole life?
gay men date like the straights. take it easy and enjoy each other, you have only been together for a few weeks? Test; would you let him kiss you in public in view of a pretty lady your age?
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