09-12-2012, 11:30 AM
Hello,
The whole aspect of friends with benefits is that its about no strings attached just a quick in and out shake it all about whipe on the curtains and leave.. Now what your developing with this guy is a craving of some sort.. The fact that he ticks all your boxes is a sign definately i agree with being attracted to him however the big big big massive factor is that your not out.. I would recommend maybe talking with him at some point about whats what and just lay all your cards on the table and be honest from the start. Dont be worried about rejection because at the end of the day what you havent got you cannot miss. I would also recommend maybe letting him know that at this stage of life you are not out to the world however if it did form into something special you would consider coming out the closet so that you both can lead a happier life than that of someone in the closet... Thus for your own experience this would then mean that when you met the next one along the line you can actually say Yeah im out the closet im no longer a case and im able to express my feelings freely around me family...
Just be honest with yourself and with him
Best of luck and big fluffy hugz
Aunty Zeon xx
The whole aspect of friends with benefits is that its about no strings attached just a quick in and out shake it all about whipe on the curtains and leave.. Now what your developing with this guy is a craving of some sort.. The fact that he ticks all your boxes is a sign definately i agree with being attracted to him however the big big big massive factor is that your not out.. I would recommend maybe talking with him at some point about whats what and just lay all your cards on the table and be honest from the start. Dont be worried about rejection because at the end of the day what you havent got you cannot miss. I would also recommend maybe letting him know that at this stage of life you are not out to the world however if it did form into something special you would consider coming out the closet so that you both can lead a happier life than that of someone in the closet... Thus for your own experience this would then mean that when you met the next one along the line you can actually say Yeah im out the closet im no longer a case and im able to express my feelings freely around me family...
Just be honest with yourself and with him
Best of luck and big fluffy hugz
Aunty Zeon xx
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