09-13-2012, 01:41 AM
No there is truly gay. Now I'd imagine most of us could, if we wished override that and use our imagination with an opposite gender partner to manage at least a lack luster performance without totally embarrassing ourselves, or the case of gay women, tune it out and fake it at the right time.
That does't make us any less gay, just means we have a pretty good imagination and a strong enough will to override our nature.
And, that's only half of what sexuality is, the other half is who we imagine spending out old age with, who we want to cuddle up to on a clod night and, who we want to know every secret of our minds and bodies. For me that is definitely a man, both sexually and emotionally. I simply can't connect with a woman beyond friendship or familial love, the romance and intimacy just don't happen for me unless it's with another man.
Yep definitely gay here, and quite happy that I am. I rather like me that way.
That does't make us any less gay, just means we have a pretty good imagination and a strong enough will to override our nature.
And, that's only half of what sexuality is, the other half is who we imagine spending out old age with, who we want to cuddle up to on a clod night and, who we want to know every secret of our minds and bodies. For me that is definitely a man, both sexually and emotionally. I simply can't connect with a woman beyond friendship or familial love, the romance and intimacy just don't happen for me unless it's with another man.
Yep definitely gay here, and quite happy that I am. I rather like me that way.