Do gay people exist?

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straight guy could never have an orgasm with another man.

Given that I've heard of straight men & women both talk about that one odd homosexual encounter (typically while drunk and/or a teen) I don't think you speak for all heterosexuals.

On a sadder note I knew straight boys as a runaway who were able to orgasm with johns (which was sometimes required to do what was wanted). And it makes sense to me as gay men are able to marry women and have children (one of the worst I heard of was a bitter woman who married a Russian Orthodox priest and had 2 children but one day he had enough, divorced her, left the priesthood, and actually joined the gay leather crowd, and she claimed they'd ONLY had sex twice, each time resulting in child, but that did mean he was able to orgasm despite being very gay) then why couldn't straight males do the same in reverse?

Is there such a thing as truly gay, or are people simply heterosexual or bisexual with bisexual individuals having gender preferences ranging anywhere from 50:50 or leaning more towards one gender in particular?

I am a strong believer in a spectrum and I believe that a few people drift across it, sometimes radically, over their lifetime. I'd guess the majority of people are at least 90% straight, though it's difficult to know how much of that is inherent and how much is put there by society (that is it could be male on male sexual experiences might be far more common if it wasn't so condemned, and some say such homosexual encounters between men was quite normal in some societies). Generally speaking someone has to be less than 80% heterosexual for me to even count them as a real bisexual (beyond that then if they're still willing to have a relationship with someone of the same sex then they're more bi-curious or very open minded, perhaps dealing in polyamory, and isn't likely to last).

I do recall getting annoyed once when CNN made a big deal over Buffy the Vampire Slayer having a lesbian one night stand in the comics. I was partially annoyed that this was even considered news, but mostly annoyed that they were saying "Buffy is a lesbian now." No, she had a one night stand after very trying circumstances, and in my mind she's still completely straight (hovering around 90% at the very least, and even if Buffy decided to fall for women in the future then she'd be bi, not lesbian, not unless she had a radical shift in sexuality).