09-17-2012, 12:25 AM
Blue Wrote:Slow down, break it down. What exactly do you want with whom?
Do you want sex with one and love with the other?
Which one would you want to party and have fun with if you could have just one?
Who can you best see yourself growing old with at your side?
Bi is entirely possible, and it might be that you want the emotional side of a relationship with one and, the physical side with the other.
All of that is a part of sexuality, and we can be anywhere on the scale, or off on a side trail all our own. As confusing as it can be, none of it is wrong, it's just you.
As for being the most messed up person on the planet - nah, I got you beat on that one :tongue:
When you say "sex with one" and "love with another", I can't help thinking if men are more about sex while women are more into romance.
I certainly can't sleep with a guy unless I'm in love with him, or at least there have to be some romantic feelings for him. I can't separate emotional and physical need.
I'm quite sure guys like me, regardless of sexual orientation, are everywhere. However, we're often viewed as losers if we let our sentiment take control.