09-19-2012, 03:50 PM
My advice: ENJOY THIS WONDERFUL, INTERNATIONAL FRIENDSHIP!
You come from two different worlds, with 2 different lifestyles, and yet, you clicked as friends. I would NOT make any effort to advance the friendship past the level it's at now. He's from spain, right? Well, gay marriage is legal there so their perceptions of what being gay is, even in Canada.
I would celebrate this friendship, but not hold off on living your life as a gay man in Canada. PLEASE don't put off meeting/dating men locally on teh hopes that maybe you two might progress past friends...that wouldn't be a good thing.
EMBRACE THIS FRIENSHIP!
You come from two different worlds, with 2 different lifestyles, and yet, you clicked as friends. I would NOT make any effort to advance the friendship past the level it's at now. He's from spain, right? Well, gay marriage is legal there so their perceptions of what being gay is, even in Canada.
I would celebrate this friendship, but not hold off on living your life as a gay man in Canada. PLEASE don't put off meeting/dating men locally on teh hopes that maybe you two might progress past friends...that wouldn't be a good thing.
EMBRACE THIS FRIENSHIP!