09-23-2012, 12:28 PM
well i can't acsually give an advice but i can tell you how i camed out, probably can help, probably not.
At 17 i realized i was more phisically atracted to guys, haven;t told anyone ... my mom noticed this and just wanted me to tell her, so i did and she had a huge relief! With my friends was kinda easy i guess, lost some of them for some years, but after 2 years after coming out we started hating again.
All i did was to say i am gay only to the ones that ask , and i tried not to make a big deal out of it, i don;t know something like saying this like a shy dude , just said it in the normal voice and like i was saying "i like coke". I think they reacted that is wasn;t a big deal , since i haven;t made a big deal out of it.
Anyway if your friends will stop talking to you, they will eventually regret that they did that and they will recome and remake the friendship that was.
This happened to me.
At 17 i realized i was more phisically atracted to guys, haven;t told anyone ... my mom noticed this and just wanted me to tell her, so i did and she had a huge relief! With my friends was kinda easy i guess, lost some of them for some years, but after 2 years after coming out we started hating again.
All i did was to say i am gay only to the ones that ask , and i tried not to make a big deal out of it, i don;t know something like saying this like a shy dude , just said it in the normal voice and like i was saying "i like coke". I think they reacted that is wasn;t a big deal , since i haven;t made a big deal out of it.
Anyway if your friends will stop talking to you, they will eventually regret that they did that and they will recome and remake the friendship that was.
This happened to me.
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