I'm not worth this much energy

[Bowyn Aerrow]

.... I know it's not my responsibility, but I feel like I'm responsible for his attachment to me.

How do I comfort him without reinforcing his attachment?!

Excuse me if I sound really mean here.

But you are responsible here.

YOU are the one who selfishly ran into his arms to tend your own wounds. He innocently believed that he was getting involved with a man who would carry through with that relationship.

Your actions hurt him.

Horribly, and I want you to think of it as horribly - you have ripped out his innocent heart and are now jumping up and down on it, seemingly without remorse or understanding of the consequences of your actions.

His only mistake was to trust.

Of course he misses you, he fell in love with you and thought you were the real deal.

Grow a pair? Really, how callous are you? He is hurt and you are the beast that hurt him.

His problem is that he still believes in fairy-tale endings and actually believes he has a chance with you. But hey, you don't care about that, its all on him, not that you had anything to do with ripping out his heart and eating it.

You lied to him for 3.5 months. 2 weeks into this you knew it was a mistake, but you selfishly clung to it and strung him along, now you feel he needs to grow a pair? Seriously?

Fortunately he will learn to harden his heart and never trust fully and completely again. He will spend the rest of his days a little more jaded and a bit more cautious. Thanks asshole.

Since you are unable to own what you have done here, you are the last person that can comfort him and give him what he needs to move on.

I take back my first sentence. I'm not sorry if this comes off being mean.