I'm not worth this much energy

[princealbertofb]

Incidentally, I'm glad you thanked Bowyn for his very frank answer, it shows you are taking stock of what your responsibility is in this. Your lover also has a responsibility. But is it really a question of growing a pair? I'd say it's more about finding a good solution to an emotional problem when both parties were not in the relationship for the same reasons, and when their comprehansion of what the relationship meant is different.