09-23-2012, 08:58 PM
When in doubt...go for complete honesty first.
Sometimes the truth will not only set you free...it will set the other person free as well.
I call it "owning your sh*t":biggrin:...and when that happens everyone wins.
The thing is...if you lay it out to him that he was a rebound guy and you used him and maybe didnt' initially know but realized it soon thereafter...it gives him a chance to deal with that.
The grow a pair remark I interpret as classic projection...because...if you had grown a pair you would have told him right away when you knew.
I apologize if that is too blunt but this is how I talk to myself because it is what helps me in life and I think honest questions deserve honest answers.
Sometimes the truth will not only set you free...it will set the other person free as well.
I call it "owning your sh*t":biggrin:...and when that happens everyone wins.
The thing is...if you lay it out to him that he was a rebound guy and you used him and maybe didnt' initially know but realized it soon thereafter...it gives him a chance to deal with that.
The grow a pair remark I interpret as classic projection...because...if you had grown a pair you would have told him right away when you knew.
I apologize if that is too blunt but this is how I talk to myself because it is what helps me in life and I think honest questions deserve honest answers.