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he didn't ask me to join with him. but he does a lot of things, i saw in his email once a bunch of registering for porn sites and one of them was a hookup website. he deletes his history and does things when i'm sleeping and he deliberately walks away from me when i try to start something intimate. and when i first told him i loved him, he said it back but it didn't sound very confident if you know what i mean. i'm just scared is all. and i do have low self-confidence.

Signs and symptoms I ignored for 12 years in my recently ended 14 year relationship.

From my own personal experience, I would have to say your worst fear is already here.

Sorry.

Had you said that in the first post, Soccer, I'd have said basically the same thing as Bowyn.

Sorry but, I think your relationship is in serious trouble. It seems you have two choices, ignore the facts and go on believing the lie, or face it and, deal with the results, whatever they might be.

Maybe you can work it out, if you want to but, there are definitely issues here that need to be addressed, unless you want to just ignore it and go on as is.