misleading therapist, what do you think

[Nick9]

I have applied some undue stress upon myself this last year, toiling with my sexuality. Trying to force it one way our another.

Hi Hank,
this seems familiar. Try to look at it different way. Why should you be so defined - straight/gay/bi? Do YOU really have to know what label put on your forehead? Do you need to tell all people around?

You are simply you. Unique. No need to belong in any box/drawer/group whatever. If you feel like straight one month and like gay the next month, it's ok. Really.
Try to find a person you will feel nice with and don't select the men/women first.

Maybe later you will see if you unconsciously follow a pattern, if there is something specific you are looking for.

There is no need to look for the label first Some people know it immediately, some don't. Both is ok.