09-30-2012, 08:47 PM
There could be any number of things going on here, but none of them are your fault or in your control.
He could be afraid of the 'image' of being with you, afraid of how others might see him because people around the both of you know that you guys have been close for so many years.
He could be in conflict with his own feelings contradicting what he believes is right and wrong, so it would be easier to just ditance himself from you.
Or he could be just so afraid of your sexuality that he is distancing himself from you and allowing a prejudice to get in the way of your bond.
The only way you will know what is going on is to give him space and the time he needs. An old quote comes to mind 'If you love someone, set them free. If they return it was meant to be, but if they don't, so be it', it not only stand true for relationships but for friendships as well.
Good luck, hope it all resolves itself soon
He could be afraid of the 'image' of being with you, afraid of how others might see him because people around the both of you know that you guys have been close for so many years.
He could be in conflict with his own feelings contradicting what he believes is right and wrong, so it would be easier to just ditance himself from you.
Or he could be just so afraid of your sexuality that he is distancing himself from you and allowing a prejudice to get in the way of your bond.
The only way you will know what is going on is to give him space and the time he needs. An old quote comes to mind 'If you love someone, set them free. If they return it was meant to be, but if they don't, so be it', it not only stand true for relationships but for friendships as well.
Good luck, hope it all resolves itself soon
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