I am hopeless.plz help

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Thank you, Gayboyindia, for the apology.

Now that I've got the time to figure out what you said up there:

I think you're doing exactly what a good friend of mine was doing until a few months ago - you're lumping everything you want to change about yourself and your life into one big, impossible to manage ball.

Stop it. Take one thing at a time, just a little thing and work on that and only that. When you get that one under control, move to the next little thing. Sure it takes a while, but, it's a lot easier that way and, the changes stick when you take it slow.

For starters, memorize, believe and internalize this: "The size of my penis does not matter. I can pleasure a partner with whatever I have, no matter what he has." And yes it is true, if you know where the erogenous zones and pleasurable place are on your partner, size does not have to be an issue at all.