10-06-2012, 01:17 PM
Tough love... that's what's needed here.
He's going to have to learn that money doesn't grow on trees and you can't eat grass.
Do you still want to be bailing him out on his "short holiday" when he's 40 years-old. Times are tough right now for us all.
He'll either make it out there or he wont and he'll be forced to come back - be patient and don't give in, you're not helping him by giving in to his constant demands for funing and this depression millarky! That's just controlling behaviour on his part. Don't dance to the beat of THAT drum!
Good luck!
He's going to have to learn that money doesn't grow on trees and you can't eat grass.
Do you still want to be bailing him out on his "short holiday" when he's 40 years-old. Times are tough right now for us all.
He'll either make it out there or he wont and he'll be forced to come back - be patient and don't give in, you're not helping him by giving in to his constant demands for funing and this depression millarky! That's just controlling behaviour on his part. Don't dance to the beat of THAT drum!
Good luck!