Are gay men capable of monogamy?

[ChadCoxRox]

I know a gay couple, they have been together for over 10 years, as far as I know there has been no cheating.

If you commit to someone it is bad to cheat. Myself, I don't care. I don't want a relationship with a single person, why limit oneself to just one other.

As I am agnostic I believe the couple thing has been created by religion. Why not just enjoy sex with someone you have feelings for. Even if it is a few people at a time

Like going out and having a beer, will you do that with only one other person?

Fred

I have to respectfully disagree with this suggestion as the OP clearly points out the ongoing value to family and values that are totally obliterated by such an attitude or perspective. Regardless of religious beliefs, the morals that have been demonstrated to the children and the family unit should be more respected else you teach the children the set standards were not real enough to warrant integrity in action when things get rough because of one's disrespect and neglect.

IF the OP is interested in such a lifestyle, I'd strongly suggest considering how to convey the break from the former and keep such a shift strictly private and unavailable to the kid's access or understanding.