10-08-2012, 03:28 PM
Bob, what you say is valid, all good point's but, based on my own and the experiences of friends, ignoring you instinct and intuition and waiting for that hard proof before you confront a likely cheating partner is not a good idea.
As for monogamy, I don't find it all that difficult. If I love my partner and, want to keep something that personal intimate between just us, it sure isn't hard to do. Lots of ways I can relive the tension without cheating if need be. Sure I look and imagine what a bit of strange might be like now and then, but that's as far as it goes, I wouldn't do the strange.
There is a lot to be said for the connection you CAN share with your partner, and more to be said for not ruining that by cheating. Maybe so many find it hard to be monogamous because they have never felt that connection with anyone. *shrug*
As for monogamy, I don't find it all that difficult. If I love my partner and, want to keep something that personal intimate between just us, it sure isn't hard to do. Lots of ways I can relive the tension without cheating if need be. Sure I look and imagine what a bit of strange might be like now and then, but that's as far as it goes, I wouldn't do the strange.
There is a lot to be said for the connection you CAN share with your partner, and more to be said for not ruining that by cheating. Maybe so many find it hard to be monogamous because they have never felt that connection with anyone. *shrug*
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