10-09-2012, 01:34 AM
I am reasonably sure my advice would not be welcome here so I will just answer the question...
YES...gay men can be monogamous and for the people who defined the people who were monogamous...think again. You are wrong.
I have been with over 500 men and been completely monogamous for 26 years with my lover...never even promised monogamy....I never let him promise monogamy to me either....we have a great relationship with alot of intimacy, respect, and friendship.
I value honesty over monogamy and my advice would probably be in left field due to that but once again I will say that monogamy is entirely possible with gay men...
...the odd thing is...if someone asked me to promise monogamy I would refuse.
YES...gay men can be monogamous and for the people who defined the people who were monogamous...think again. You are wrong.
I have been with over 500 men and been completely monogamous for 26 years with my lover...never even promised monogamy....I never let him promise monogamy to me either....we have a great relationship with alot of intimacy, respect, and friendship.
I value honesty over monogamy and my advice would probably be in left field due to that but once again I will say that monogamy is entirely possible with gay men...
...the odd thing is...if someone asked me to promise monogamy I would refuse.