People are Finding Out

[72jay]

your gay so you want to be in an affirming crowd, even just for a few hours to just be your self.

probably something along that line is the best way to say it

-i temper this by saying i dont know who you think you are but most or all of us here are part of the 47% that no cares about. That may be the only thing saving us.

As to who I am all I can say that I'm an average nobody .. something nobody in the general public would care about
Its family/neighbors/co-workers that I wouldn't want finding out about that stuff

This is an age where anyone can take a pic or video. Your tagged buying gas, get groceries, walk the dog.

True there are cameras everywhere, but that recording at stores/gas-stations/city-sidewalks/etc is for the most part not released to the public (even if it was, no big deal if someone saw I went to the store and bought lightbulbs or apples or whatever LOL)
On a related note. I was looking through pictures from that event in the city I went to a couple weeks ago .. and came across one which I'm in ( :eek: f--ing scary shit :eek: ) but by looking at it you can't tell its me - I'm in the background and at the edge - I know its me since I know what wearing / exactly where I was standing (for my own knowledge I'll have to see if I got a picture of the picture-taker there).

-it takes a huge amount of personal bandwidth to appear straight.

You do what you can to keep that appearance / deny things if ever asked.

At very worst say the 'wrong' people did find out/things go bad.....assuming someone doesn't um "take care of you" then you can always find a bridge and jump (or whatever)..personally I'd rather not think about when/if that day comes....