10-26-2012, 12:01 PM
Heya inthecloset,
I was kinda like that before I came out as well, it really sucks feeling like you're starting to lose that connection with people. It's partly out of fear I guess, you don't want people to judge you or be worried about your sexuality, and you end up bottling a lot of things up - which in turn makes you feel less like having fun, trying things, being yourself. It's a tough time of life, but it will only happen once, and you are always inevitably progressing forward.
Talk to somebody close to you, and you might be surprised that your friends are missing you, or wonder what's wrong. They started hanging out with you for a reason x
I was kinda like that before I came out as well, it really sucks feeling like you're starting to lose that connection with people. It's partly out of fear I guess, you don't want people to judge you or be worried about your sexuality, and you end up bottling a lot of things up - which in turn makes you feel less like having fun, trying things, being yourself. It's a tough time of life, but it will only happen once, and you are always inevitably progressing forward.
Talk to somebody close to you, and you might be surprised that your friends are missing you, or wonder what's wrong. They started hanging out with you for a reason x