10-26-2012, 11:55 AM
I've got to agree with Bowyn here...
despite your heart telling you everything about him is perfect, I think part of you knows that your brain is saying a lot of NOs. Doesn't that always make people that bit more attractive though?
The whole tie lesson sounded a little suspect, I can't imagine a professor of his age not knowing something like that, but then I don't know the guy. People use a lot of pretense for physical contact. I'd also like to counter by saying that when people want something REALLY bad, they can inaccurately read a lot of social cues and innocent acts of kindness.
He may be bisexual and tempted, but is faithful to his girlfriend. All I can say at the moment is to try and get some answers. Hang out with him in New York, have some drinks, talk about love and sex and try NOT to mention anything about your feelings. If anything it will help build a bond between you and hopefully answer a few questions about his preferences.
Crushes are fine. Feelings are scary
and he sounds like a good person to you so try not to scare him away.
despite your heart telling you everything about him is perfect, I think part of you knows that your brain is saying a lot of NOs. Doesn't that always make people that bit more attractive though?
The whole tie lesson sounded a little suspect, I can't imagine a professor of his age not knowing something like that, but then I don't know the guy. People use a lot of pretense for physical contact. I'd also like to counter by saying that when people want something REALLY bad, they can inaccurately read a lot of social cues and innocent acts of kindness.
He may be bisexual and tempted, but is faithful to his girlfriend. All I can say at the moment is to try and get some answers. Hang out with him in New York, have some drinks, talk about love and sex and try NOT to mention anything about your feelings. If anything it will help build a bond between you and hopefully answer a few questions about his preferences.
Crushes are fine. Feelings are scary
and he sounds like a good person to you so try not to scare him away.
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