Im in love with my advisor, does he love me back??

[commania]

Thanks all for all the great advices, you really put some sense in me, i needed something like this. Well the thing is even if he did like me, he is too much of a professional to admit it. So i thought if i wasnt the one taking the step wed never have any chance together.

But yeah it is too early for that. As Sil said, I should save that for a pub conversation after a few drinks and probably thousands of miles away from the department, in US probably . Noone is worth taking that risk anyway.

bit confused about where the lady comes from? Is this his girl friend. Are both of you staying June -> Sept and is the girl only there for the 15dyas off? What city are you going to in the US? Are you there for 15days or the June/Sept stent.

back at home:
-There are huge cultural differences Bursa/Turkey.
-Your adviser is also trying to make a super good impression with a possible employer? From your post sounds like people talk at your school environment so not good your the first student he works with and people think he is getting you pregnant.

in all this dont loose your objectivity. You still need an adviser and get that PHD done. Seems like this will be a lot of work.

To answer your questions, his girlfriend isnt coming to US. Shes working here. And that 'her' is my best friend who is also a phd student. If she comes shell be there for 3 months as well. Since he is the one responsible for accomodation (he said we could stay at his friends houses) i had to ask for his permission to bring someone else. But later i found out that he was planning to tour the states with me.