How are you today?

[Sylph]

hey hallo everyone
im really newbie around here,and im confuse with my feelin.btw how did u knew that u were gay? i mean whos make that thing so clear for u?
thanks alot xD
have a great day y'all xD

Hi Roroachi .

Well, for me, it's always been there for me. I'm one of those fem[feminine] guys parent's usually tell their sons to watch out for, even though I'm not really like that .

I've always looked at a guy and said; "He's going to be my husband, and I'll be the wife :biggrin: " . I've just always felt an attraction, a pull if you will.

Basically, it felt natural for me. I never really thought about it, I didn't even say; "Hey I'm gay" at first, I just said; "I wanna be his girlfriend!" .

Not that many would agree here, probably, but that's how I knew, and when I learned more about the whole "gay thing", I realized that's what I was.

It's probably harder for guys who aren't as feminine as I was/am, because you grow up "normal" and then suddenly feel an attraction to the same sex, whereas I grew up always saying I wanted to be some guy's wife/girlfriend.

I think it best to let things be organic when it comes to figuring yourself out and what you like/don't like.

No one can really tell you who,what,when,where,why and how, so you have to figure it out. You know yourself better than any one possibly can. Don't let outside influences change and manipulate your decisions/feelings.

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