05-02-2008, 01:39 AM
Dan1089 Wrote:Aww...man Smurls,I'm so sorry to hear that.I'm not going to pretend as if I know about your domestic situation but aren't you being too tough on your Momsy?My Ma also does the most random things but I tolerate it because she's getting old and therefore I should do my best to accomodate her.Again,I don't know about the situation but I do care about your wellbeing.Enjoy the rest of your day champ.
Too tough? She's the one that split the family up and made it so we have to scrimp and scrape to survive. OK maybe that was an unfair judgement to make - she obviously loves him - and who am I to judge someone who does something for love, as I'm in love and know what it's like. But she has just changed SO much since he moved in. I see that she is happier and I appreciate that and am happy she's happy. But I also see the house going downhill, I see her becoming lazier with each day... I see her drinking more alcohol than she EVER drank before... which is defnitely no good for her diabetes... just so much I see that maybe she doesn't... but I guess it's her life so I shan't nag.
She said something that made me double take the other day. She randomly said "If anything ever happens to me, take over tenancy of the house." so I was like "huh?" she was like "don't worry bout stuart (the bf), he will go back to london, you take tenancy of the house, otherwise you'll wait years to get your own place, and then swap it for a flat" - which was sooo random... :S