06-22-2013, 12:22 PM
Archubbycub, for you (still got quoting issues)
A true story
When I was dealing with welfare, regards my foster son, I became aware of a youngester in the same home, whose background was thus:-
Removed from parents, father sexually abusive (I'm in no way implying anything whatsoever by this please)
Father could only see the lad under supervision
Invarably, the arrangements broke down, and the lad would vent his frustration by hitting holes through doors, smashing his fist through window panes and banging his forehead repeatedly on the wall.
The lad hated what his father had done to him, but loved him non the less.
The point being, The ties that bind biologicals together can never be broken. Seems to me your son has been turned through malicous talk. Trust me when I say, that pidgeon will go home to roost with a vengance.
Take it from whence it came. It's not his fault right now. Keep the door open, communicate, let him know you love him. unconditionally.
The day will come when his eyes will open, and when that happens, he'll turn on those that have set you up as the monster.
Oh how he will turn.....
Just don't play the revenge / hate game through him, be the bigger one here.
Tough it out.
My heartfelt support
Trial by error
A true story
When I was dealing with welfare, regards my foster son, I became aware of a youngester in the same home, whose background was thus:-
Removed from parents, father sexually abusive (I'm in no way implying anything whatsoever by this please)
Father could only see the lad under supervision
Invarably, the arrangements broke down, and the lad would vent his frustration by hitting holes through doors, smashing his fist through window panes and banging his forehead repeatedly on the wall.
The lad hated what his father had done to him, but loved him non the less.
The point being, The ties that bind biologicals together can never be broken. Seems to me your son has been turned through malicous talk. Trust me when I say, that pidgeon will go home to roost with a vengance.
Take it from whence it came. It's not his fault right now. Keep the door open, communicate, let him know you love him. unconditionally.
The day will come when his eyes will open, and when that happens, he'll turn on those that have set you up as the monster.
Oh how he will turn.....
Just don't play the revenge / hate game through him, be the bigger one here.
Tough it out.
My heartfelt support
Trial by error
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