06-28-2013, 07:55 PM
try to look at it with some calmness
Do you want to stay with him?
If yes, tell him that he hurt you - well, you already did and he knows. Tell him, that you still love him (if you do). And talk about some boundaries and rules for the future.
ALSO, you both should talk about why it happened. Maybe there is something he is missing in the relationship. You both should try to address it and work on it. And if you also miss something, mention it too. Don't argue, talk.
I hope you will sort it out.
Do you want to stay with him?
If yes, tell him that he hurt you - well, you already did and he knows. Tell him, that you still love him (if you do). And talk about some boundaries and rules for the future.
ALSO, you both should talk about why it happened. Maybe there is something he is missing in the relationship. You both should try to address it and work on it. And if you also miss something, mention it too. Don't argue, talk.
I hope you will sort it out.