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[fjp999]

Hi All,
I am doing alright bit so so today.. My mate discussed with me his will.. His in his 50's getting for 60 but is dying of emphysimiea (smoking related illness where u choke on your own fluid in your lungs) and even though he may not die for some years to come his health is slowly getting worse and we discussed his will, the fact he wants to go to the funeral on his own.. No one is allowed to go and that I am the chief executive of his will and have the responsibility of clearing out his flat, notifying the morgue etc etc all that hoo har that i aint sure how to do being only 23 so i think when the time does come ill call my mum first lol..

Kindest regards

zeon x

Hey zeon, dont know how I missed this. Hope you are will find yourself strong for your mate as time goes on... You have been given a precious position. Dont know if this will help but I would suggest taking it as just another stage in life.

Funny how my matey was all interested in discussing my funeral when thought to be in the far far future... but as things have changed dramatically it can no longer be discussed! Shhhhhh, Shhhhhh, Shhhhhhh is whispered in my ear as I try to open my lips.

Of course I understand anyones discomfort with the issue but as one suffers from a long term health issue and another doesnt it is impossible to explain ones own desires.

Best of luck to you both