01-14-2014, 09:59 AM
Josh, I have a phiosophy about that...I am not a religious person but this helps me deal with that question. My Uncle, best man you would ever want to meet in your life, he would cut his arm off for family, he would cut your head off if you hurt his kids, his favourite word was always 'I Love You' and he didn't care if you were a bloke, if he loved you, he would tell you...he was 50 when we lost him.
My father, alcoholic gambler that did sweet fuck all for his kids and family in general, gambled a house and a car away leaving my mother in such debt that she had to work 3 jobs to provide for my brother and my self, he wil;l turn 72 in a couple of months....he lives in squalor, not a cent to his name, disowned by his family, a kidney removed due to cancer still drinking and gambling.
My uncle was needed somewhere else more important because he had reached enough people here, he bred love.
My father is a festering pit of self pity and loathing...punishment.
Your friend is off helping someone else that needs the help more than you do Josh
My father, alcoholic gambler that did sweet fuck all for his kids and family in general, gambled a house and a car away leaving my mother in such debt that she had to work 3 jobs to provide for my brother and my self, he wil;l turn 72 in a couple of months....he lives in squalor, not a cent to his name, disowned by his family, a kidney removed due to cancer still drinking and gambling.
My uncle was needed somewhere else more important because he had reached enough people here, he bred love.
My father is a festering pit of self pity and loathing...punishment.
Your friend is off helping someone else that needs the help more than you do Josh
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