How are you today?

[ChadCoxRox]

It has been 8 months since my husband past, and I'm getting used to living alone.

I've learned that buying fresh vegetables is a waste of money because they go bad before I use them (smile)...
I've learned that I only need to cook one meal a day.
I've learned that I can skip cleaning the house regularly.
I've learned that I have several widowed ladies in my neighborhood that I can take out to lunch, or see a movie.
I've learned that I only need one car instead of two.  The other one never got used.

Basically its like starting over in many respects.  It is hard finding gay friends to hang out with at my age.  Most are wanting sex, which I'm not interested in at the moment, or are wanting a relationship which I'm also not ready for yet.

So, most of my time is spent at home alone now, but I don't feel lonely.  I have become good friends with the sofa & TV remote (smile)... 

This is my new reality, and I'm adjusting well.  I still miss Tom and wish he was here, but I've accepted the loss and no longer grieve or cry. 

I'm getting there,,, don't know where I am going with my life, just yet,,,, but I'm getting there (smile)

Sin-cerely,
Jim

Love this Jim. Enjoy doing you for your own sake and mix in some fun all along the way. I find the fun in simply going half naked to check the mail box. LOL