How are you today?

[Jay]

I came out to a colleague 2 hours ago.

He's 27 years old as I am but a few months older than me. Unsurprisingly, he seems to be more mature than me. Again unsurprisingly, I see him as a big brother. Note that he's the manly macho type of guy. Bruce Willis type of guy.

We had the discussion after working hour. At the time, he was showing me new photos of his girlfriend. He then asked me when I am going to have a girlfriend. I gave him excuses of course. He kept pushing me again and again. In return, I gave him more excuses.

Then he laughed. He thought it's funny that I still have zero experience in having a girlfriend as I am 27.

I then said, "One day I will tell you why."

Then my colleague went, "Fu*cker, just tell me now or I whack your head off. Don't keep me guessing."

Typical of my big brother. I know he sounds like a harsh type of guy but he is not. He's very nice. A gentleman guy actually. But yes indeed he likes to curse.

"Now!" He shouted. I laughed.

So I did. Slowly.

There was a tiny heat at one point but in overall, he accepts me as who I am. He said that he saw the hint long time ago and was waiting for me to crack it up.

It went well. I'm happy as my life seems to get better in each day.