Need some support/advice!

[driftwood]

I'm not one to give advice - I'm mainly here to get answers - but it seems clear to me that the object of your affection is clearly bisexual. If you find that offensive, or if you are looking for fidelity and not prepared to put up with anything else, you will need eventually to confront him with this. As a bisexual man myself, I have found that the only way I can reconcile my behavior is to be either gay or hetero during any one particular time, and add that I also need to be faithful to my chosen (male or female) during that time. This does not mean that I am not aware of my attraction for both sexes. I am always aware of both. If he cannot do the same, at least while he is with you, You need to forget him and move on. There may be tremendous pain involved there, but you need to consider your own needs.

~questioning