01-22-2014, 05:19 PM
it seems to me that given both your ages, you are both going through a phase of sexual discovery, albiet with each other.
You describe yourself as bi, is that what you believe, or is that just a label that your comfortable with?
You mention that unsafe sex is not an issue. Well it is should be, and you should be thinking of your own safety (as well as his) Do you know 100% that he's not having sexual contact with anyone else (m or f)? Would he tell you if he was? Just remember its very easy to say your "clean" but its also true that in most cases there is no physical symptom of having an STD, at least until you have already caught it and the symptoms are visible (depending on which STD of course)
Your at the stage in the relationship - we'll call it that for now - where you should not be afraid of asking questions about sexuality etc. If you don't and this goes on for longer, then you really run the risk of being badly hurt emotionally if he dumps you, or worse finds someone else to be intimate with.
It does sound like your in the classic "fuck buddy" relationship, where there is no emotional involvement just the physical act of sex.
You need to have the courage to face up to him and have the discussion. And have it before your next sexual encounter. Depending on his response, and willingness to discuss you should get a pretty good feel for what's going on.
Don't be afraid to come back here for further advice. Your in the right place for that.
Good Luck,
ObW
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You describe yourself as bi, is that what you believe, or is that just a label that your comfortable with?
You mention that unsafe sex is not an issue. Well it is should be, and you should be thinking of your own safety (as well as his) Do you know 100% that he's not having sexual contact with anyone else (m or f)? Would he tell you if he was? Just remember its very easy to say your "clean" but its also true that in most cases there is no physical symptom of having an STD, at least until you have already caught it and the symptoms are visible (depending on which STD of course)
Your at the stage in the relationship - we'll call it that for now - where you should not be afraid of asking questions about sexuality etc. If you don't and this goes on for longer, then you really run the risk of being badly hurt emotionally if he dumps you, or worse finds someone else to be intimate with.
It does sound like your in the classic "fuck buddy" relationship, where there is no emotional involvement just the physical act of sex.
You need to have the courage to face up to him and have the discussion. And have it before your next sexual encounter. Depending on his response, and willingness to discuss you should get a pretty good feel for what's going on.
Don't be afraid to come back here for further advice. Your in the right place for that.
Good Luck,
ObW
X
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