Need some support/advice!

[TeamFreeWill]

Do you know 100% that he's not having sexual contact with anyone else (m or f)? Would he tell you if he was? Just remember its very easy to say your "clean" but its also true that in most cases there is no physical symptom of having an STD, at least until you have already caught it and the symptoms are visible (depending on which STD of course)

I'm 100% positive on the fact that both of us are clean... We've both had the tests, and I've seen his results, and he's normally really open and frank about most things, so I know that apart from me he's only had sex one other time, and the tests were after that so there really shouldn't be an issue... I think that even though he seems not to like discussing it, he'd be kind enough to tell me something that would risk my health, the same way I would tell him. Thanks!

And in regards to the ideas of the other reply, I'm happy whether he's Bi, Gay or something completely different and I understand fully that he's going to still find other genders attractive IF he ever is with me. And I know on my sidebar thingy it says Bi, but that's merely because there wasn't a Pansexual option... But then Bi is close enough for it to be acceptable. That itself means I know how hard it is to only focus on one gender... Because I find them all attractive (well it comes down more to personality with me, but hey ho!)

And just in general... Thanks for the reply's they've been a really great help! I'm at his on Friday which almost guarantees something will happen, so I think Ill discuss it with him then... I'm currently thinking of doing it over coffee in a public, but still quite private, place so that he feels less able to over react... Because knowing that in public he cant storm away if its something he doesn't want to face, he's more likely to discuss it with me... Is that the right way to do it though? Any further advice?