01-23-2014, 01:27 AM
He is very much not straight, that's clear..
I'm afraid that you'll have to take the risk..
certainly, neither you nor him are comfortable in telling people about your orientation, so you should be honest with him, say "I'm starting to like you a lot", hope for the best and expect the worse..
one of the possible reactions is that in fact he uses you as a way to explore this side of him that he's not comfortable with..
once you talk bout serious attachment, one of the possibe scenarios is that he dumps you faster than a lightning hitting the ground..
It's a risk, but certainly you cannot let yourself be the play thing nor use him as such..
I'm afraid that you'll have to take the risk..
certainly, neither you nor him are comfortable in telling people about your orientation, so you should be honest with him, say "I'm starting to like you a lot", hope for the best and expect the worse..
one of the possible reactions is that in fact he uses you as a way to explore this side of him that he's not comfortable with..
once you talk bout serious attachment, one of the possibe scenarios is that he dumps you faster than a lightning hitting the ground..
It's a risk, but certainly you cannot let yourself be the play thing nor use him as such..
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