02-02-2014, 07:24 PM
I made a really big post about how I related. Didn't want to post it.
Your best move is to separate yourself from your mother permanetely.
Do Not: Hate her, like her, love her.
Do: Just let her live her life, separately from you. Absolve yourself of her.
Truly getting over an abusive parent means finding a way to reconcile yourself, and letting all feelings towards that parent go. This is hard: They deserve hate, you automatically love them and want their love. You want them to suffer; to see the error of their ways. You must let this go. It is not relevant to your life. You must choose to let them exit your life.
In this you find freedom and independence from your past.
I do relate Dreamer, I am sorry you've gone and are going through this.
Your best move is to separate yourself from your mother permanetely.
Do Not: Hate her, like her, love her.
Do: Just let her live her life, separately from you. Absolve yourself of her.
Truly getting over an abusive parent means finding a way to reconcile yourself, and letting all feelings towards that parent go. This is hard: They deserve hate, you automatically love them and want their love. You want them to suffer; to see the error of their ways. You must let this go. It is not relevant to your life. You must choose to let them exit your life.
In this you find freedom and independence from your past.
I do relate Dreamer, I am sorry you've gone and are going through this.
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