03-10-2014, 02:14 AM
I did it at one point.
Up until a year and half ago.
Simply, I'm a 95% closeted boy and I didn't want people to find out I was gay.
The best way I could succeed was simply not dating men.
Certainly I didn't want (still don't want) the double life, or the hiding out. So, simple. Celibacy.
Yeah, I don't do so well with lonely. So I dropped that stance. Worked well enough for 13 years, though.
Up until a year and half ago.
Simply, I'm a 95% closeted boy and I didn't want people to find out I was gay.
The best way I could succeed was simply not dating men.
Certainly I didn't want (still don't want) the double life, or the hiding out. So, simple. Celibacy.
Yeah, I don't do so well with lonely. So I dropped that stance. Worked well enough for 13 years, though.