03-11-2014, 12:14 PM
BobInTampa Wrote:Stop making excuses. If you think you're too fat to be "attractive" - GET IN SHAPE. If you think you're "too shy" to meet socially - GET OUT FROM BEHIND THE COMPUTER AND JOIN A SOCIAL CLUB OF SOME SORT.
While you've left off - download a dating app and introduce yourself - find a date. Your points are well taken. But you seem a bit harsh frankly. It's not all whining. After all - I've been in relationships for 18 years, and newly single at 53 y/o. That's no small thing to overcome. I recently decided after 9 months of attempting to meet guys online (I met my last two BFs online)... that I had to try something else - So I decided to volunteer at our local Gay Pride and LGBT Community Center. Hopefully expanding my horizons in this way will result in meeting a compatible partner. I don't give up.