How many of you have decided to be single forever

[Sylph]

*gets in to put this on the table*

Almost every town in your country perhaps

*fades away from thread*

Exactly, not every place on earth is as appreciative of Homosexuality as they seem to be in Gaymerica and the UGay.

Some of us are alone, because our environments have us so and not only that, but its easy for someone who can have the option of even having an excuse to tell someone else who may not even have that, not to have one.

True I don't give a fuck about people and their shit, but that's not to say other gay guys here are like that. Many are scared to be public or with a guy at all, because its so uncommon.

And you may say "why don't you leave?" . Well for a few majour reasons;

1) Tho my country was considered the third richest in the world at one point(yes 21sq miles in 3rd place, how about that), even then, not everyone has the ability to just pack up shop and leave and we cannot "seek asylum" because we are not technically critically endangered.

2) Many of us, myself included, don't want to leave, due to the fact that this is our home, its literally all we know. America is America, you have many states and while you may affiliate yourself with one more so than others, it's not like leaving behind a whole wealth of culture and way of life.

I couldn't find true happiness elsewhere, so why should I have to go? True it impedes my potential love life, but I'd prefer to be where I know and love if I can't be somewhere with the person I love. Selfish perhaps, but again, you have no clue what its like for someone like myself.


Do you see any other Island people on this Forum? Now ask yourself why?


At first I didn't choose to be alone, but now I do so, because I love myself enough and my culture,island, blah blah to find happiness. Even tho it may not be with a boyfriend, I have friends and family I can share my happiness with.

And if someone miraculously came along or I found them, then sure I'd pursue it. But telling us to stop whining and making excuses is really a fools answer to something he truly doesn't understand.

Don't like it? Lump it then, as my mama always says