08-08-2008, 12:59 AM
If you're not 100% CERTAIN [SIZE=2]that you can and WANT to do it then [SIZE=7]DON'T!!
[SIZE=2]It sounds really silly and judgemental but if you're not in a place where you're gonna feel totally comfortable with everything at outset then don't go there.
Trust me i got myself into SUCH a mess with the way i was when i was younger. You don't wanna go there...
Just bail on the random and focus on living, if you're bi or gay then the whole man thing will happen in a much more enjoyable way in it's own good time. And you'll be glad you listened to me and you've not been left in a ditch in the middle of nowhere walking home trying not to sob as you bleed in places you weren't sure that's supposed to happen...
xxx
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[SIZE=2]It sounds really silly and judgemental but if you're not in a place where you're gonna feel totally comfortable with everything at outset then don't go there.
Trust me i got myself into SUCH a mess with the way i was when i was younger. You don't wanna go there...
Just bail on the random and focus on living, if you're bi or gay then the whole man thing will happen in a much more enjoyable way in it's own good time. And you'll be glad you listened to me and you've not been left in a ditch in the middle of nowhere walking home trying not to sob as you bleed in places you weren't sure that's supposed to happen...
xxx
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