08-12-2008, 02:56 PM
There's very little I can add, as the boys have hit the nail right smack-bang on the head ...
If you're unsure (and as this is your first time), you're leaving yourself vulnerable on a number of levels, mostly because a) you lack the experience to perhaps gauge exactly what's going on, and how to respond appropriately; and b) you're not even sure it's what you really want.
My advice would be to take a step back, assess the situation and NOT go with random guy at all. It may SEEM appealing, and it may BE appealing, but your first time ought to be special and significant - not seedy or borne of desperation (or indeed anything less than 100% sincerity from both parties).
If you do decide you want to lose your virginity to somebody to see whether you like it or not, then take your time, get to know the person first, and make sure that you're comfortable with them, and that they will treat you right.
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
If you're unsure (and as this is your first time), you're leaving yourself vulnerable on a number of levels, mostly because a) you lack the experience to perhaps gauge exactly what's going on, and how to respond appropriately; and b) you're not even sure it's what you really want.
My advice would be to take a step back, assess the situation and NOT go with random guy at all. It may SEEM appealing, and it may BE appealing, but your first time ought to be special and significant - not seedy or borne of desperation (or indeed anything less than 100% sincerity from both parties).
If you do decide you want to lose your virginity to somebody to see whether you like it or not, then take your time, get to know the person first, and make sure that you're comfortable with them, and that they will treat you right.
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
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