07-28-2014, 02:49 AM
The boyfriend has valid feelings....
You went online to a gay site..connected with other men .. regardless of the situation and now they are in yours and his life..
Now... here me out.. I understand this is innocent... but if meeting friends online was the norm for you ... your boyfriend would not have reacted the way he did.
Communication is also an issue here.. If you need to make friends.. you and your boyfriend should have a mutual understanding of this.
Here is the truth. ..
Your attention is divided and your boyfriend knows it...
Your new friend "Gets you"... and your boyfriend doesn't? ...Another issue there..
Your duty first and foremost is to your boyfriend. ..
Sort it out!
You went online to a gay site..connected with other men .. regardless of the situation and now they are in yours and his life..
Now... here me out.. I understand this is innocent... but if meeting friends online was the norm for you ... your boyfriend would not have reacted the way he did.
Communication is also an issue here.. If you need to make friends.. you and your boyfriend should have a mutual understanding of this.
Here is the truth. ..
Your attention is divided and your boyfriend knows it...
Your new friend "Gets you"... and your boyfriend doesn't? ...Another issue there..
Your duty first and foremost is to your boyfriend. ..
Sort it out!