07-29-2014, 12:54 AM
The club scene is not "the gay world." Perhaps if you're 25 and have been candyflipping your whole life, that's all you know and so, it seems that way.
I do know that when I turned 25, for the first time I began to see college age 'kids' as, well, kids. Its when I knew I was 'growing up', 'getting older'. But still 25 is NOT old by any stretch of the imagination. There are MANY truly hot and sought after men who are 20+ years beyond that number. He just needs to change his experiential 'demographic' of "the gay world".
I do know that when I turned 25, for the first time I began to see college age 'kids' as, well, kids. Its when I knew I was 'growing up', 'getting older'. But still 25 is NOT old by any stretch of the imagination. There are MANY truly hot and sought after men who are 20+ years beyond that number. He just needs to change his experiential 'demographic' of "the gay world".