07-29-2014, 03:46 PM
I think the main reason why guys 25-30 feel "old" when they first come out at that age is because they spent the better half of their youth surrounded by sex and relationships, but they never got to have that themselves when they were younger. At least, that's how I felt when I came out at 19, which I know is really young but still, it feels like I'm always behind by like 5 years. So, I can sympathize with these men who say they feel "old", they're just upset at the fact that they have a lot of catching up to do.