07-29-2014, 08:34 PM
I have a friend, he's 19, he is bisexual (becoming mostly gay) he lost his wife (he had been dating her since they where 17) to suicide after some strong words where exchanged after our mutual friend (My lover) died, then he had a stroke, now he feels like he is a usles, undesirable waste oddf space half the time, I love the guy to death, he's like a brother to me, so I tell him he isn't, but it seems 20-25 is about the time of "I'm loosing my edge" mentality, I, Personally, Go for men I think are cute, or that have a nice body more than anything, but If a guy at least matches som of my likes, and is smart and sweet, I could care less about his age... Hell, I was dating a 29 year old rather recently, till he betrayed the before meantioned friend, so I don't, personally, understanf the strange mentality you talked about